The Delulu Wife

Men will be men—unless you’re with that rare 1% who manage to resist their inner chaos. I’ve seen it time and time again. From the church-going husbands to the biker at the bar, the dads on the golf course, and especially in the military. They are who they are. Either you’re too naive to see the truth, or you’re choosing to play along with it.

I’ve been around the military long enough to know: people aren’t robots. I also dated someone whose parents were swingers—so yeah, I’ve seen behind the curtain. There’s a whole coded world out there. Green vs. red porch lights, boots on the porch, pineapples, the military police swinger club, and let’s not forget the officer class club—an elite circle that proudly passes around each other’s “seconds.”

Like it or not, these men have nearly unlimited access to women. Chances are, they’ve already done it, are currently doing it, or are itching for more than their prim and proper roles allow. And they play those roles to perfection.

They’ll act like the perfect partner—attentive, devoted, convincing you they'd never stray. But in today’s world, where access is everything, more people are discovering the many hidden lives being lived.

Trust me, the access is endless—Pornhub, OnlyFans, Instagram, Snapchat, and yes, even Reddit. That innocent-looking forum? It's a whole underground world of fantasies, hookups, and secrets. If your partner is spending a little too much time on Reddit, don’t be fooled—it’s not all advice threads and cat memes. There’s a lot more going on behind those usernames.

So here's the truth: accept it, wake up to it, or walk away. But don't say you weren't warned.